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    "Gossip Girl"

    Lesson 1: Forget and forgive. Serena has got a lousy past, parties, drinks, drugs, cheated on her best friend......Boyfriend sleeps with best friend. Best friend sleeps with girlfriend. Wife cheats on husband. Daughter turns a deaf ear to father's suggestion, despises her family, despises her brother and chooses her vanity instead of family......Really mess up. Yet they find a reason to forget and forgive. They give each other a chance to leave the past in the past and move on.  After all no one in the world is faultless. Perfection does not exist. How can we be so harsh on others!

    Lesson 2: Don't be a judge. When we do something, we've got a reason to do it. The reason may not hold water in your eyes. But can you say that you are not one of them. We always assume that we are right. Actually, we are nobody to say what is right and what is wrong. This is especially true if you are persistent in your thoughts. I don't mean that you can not be confident in what you hold. Just don't try to judge others by using your principles. We all have our own preferences. What looks perfect to you may be nothing to someone else. So I guess that when we find something pleasant in others, speak it out without hesitation. While when we find it not so pleasant, give it a second thought before you say it or just keep silent. Remember silence is gold.

    Lesson 3: Remember every coin has its two sides. That is also true of people. No mater how evil he is, he has got something kind inward. Vice versa. So don't complain about one's evil deeds. Just try to get one's best out of him. If you can't, step aside and don't judge.

    I am kind of hooked by this TV play recently. I enjoy it and have learnt something from it, most of which are cliche though. Yet we need something to remind us of these cliche from time to time.

    看完了闾丘露薇的《无微不至》。记得几年前看过她的《行走中的玫瑰》。当时我是被她身为战地记者的那种勇气所吸引。看完那本书，但却忘记了具体说的是什么，就像看过很多其他书一样，只留下看到她的书还想看看的念头。这本书主要是说她对一些生活，媒体，人物，时政，城市，留学的一些想法，朴实的语言里见大智慧。看着轻松也长了些许见识。